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Parents: Don't Rush Your P's Pitching Journey

It's not about how many pitches she knows. It's about how many she can command.

Allie Walljasper Softball

When your P starts her pitching journey, it’s easy to get excited. The mound looks like a blank canvas and you want her to learn every pitch in the book — fastball, change, curve, rise, screw, drop, off-speed… all of them.

But here’s the truth: don’t rush the process.

Master One Before Moving On

It’s not about how many pitches your P knows. It’s about how many pitches she can command.

I see this all the time: a P can throw 55 MPH, but when you really break it down — how many of those are strikes? How many of those are competitive pitches in the zone?

If the ball-to-strike ratio isn’t strong, that’s your sign. It’s time to pause, step back, and focus on mastering that one pitch before moving forward.

Progression beats collection.

Why It Matters

If a pitcher jumps from pitch to pitch without true command of the basics, it’s like building a house on sand. Sure, the structure may look impressive at first — but it won’t hold up under pressure.

The goal isn't
"She throws five pitches."
The goal is
"She can put the ball exactly where she wants it."

From My Experience as an All-American

As an All-American, I can tell you firsthand: you don’t need five pitches to dominate at the college level. What you need is command, spin, and confidence.

I lived by four main pitches:

Fastball
Changeup
Drop & Off-speed Drop
Curveball

That’s it. And with those, I won games, beat great hitters, and built my career.

It wasn’t about how many pitches I had — it was about how well I could locate and command the ones I trusted.

Final Word for Parents

If your P is just starting, resist the urge to rush. Celebrate progress, not the pitch count. Help her build a strong foundation with one pitch before stacking on the next.

Because in the end, success isn’t measured by the number of pitches in her toolbox — it’s measured by how confidently she can own the game with the ones she has.

Allie Walljasper
Former LSU All-American and D1 pitching coach. Teaching pitchers in Columbia, SC — and everywhere through the AW25 app.